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ok so my ex is textin me asking me this, problem is i never stayed in contact with her until she contacted me a while back and then disapears, we have still been friends but i hardly see her and never went out with her for more than a month(as shes the kind to cheat), if i lend her this that would mean my supe will be delayed more another month and i always put my supra before any chick? i also owe my mum 500 and dad 300 this month to clear of the money i borrowed for my supe last month:rolleyes:
quote what she texted me:-
"i know its rude, but cud i borrow 900.00 by 2nite, or they wil take my car. i will pay you bk, im in debt my parents dnt know or i wud ask"
"or 450 2nite and 450 next week, will pay you bak wont run away"
what would you guys do?
not a chance in hell mate!
toyotasuprauk
30-07-07, 18:55
No Way!
tell her the truth you owe your mum and dad £800 and you have promised to pay them back this month."sorry no can do"
Speak to your parents first Jazz, not us lot:)
Stay clear mate. You don't lend money unless it's to someone you really trust and even then, unless you can comfortably afford it, I'd be wary of lending anyone just short of a grand like that.
It's her mess, let her deal with it. Unless you were involved in the money side of things then it's none of your business. She needs to learn how things go and not to expect everyone to bail her out of whatever crap she's in.
thats what im thinking, but how would you guys go on about texting her?
considering you only went out with her for a month and you are a bit short of cash yourself this month I would tell her 'No' - if you arent getting any and fancy a bit then maybe offer to lend her a couple of hundred and see if she gives you anything back :D
Whitesupraboy2
30-07-07, 18:58
no way, one min its 900 tonight 450 next week. If she cant pay back her parents she wont pay you back.
You went out for a month....not even a proper ex!! Im currently fighting for £450 off my ex....trust me dont do it and I lent it to her when we were going out
the description cheeky springs to mind :blink:
Tell her to bugger off mate :p
Speak to your parents first Jazz, not us lot:)
they would say no anyway lol they would tell me to save it
thats what im thinking, but how would you guys go on about texting her?
tell her straight dude - you will feel better for it in the end! You dont actually owe her anything so why are you feeling guilty for simply saying 'No' its not like its 50 quid 1k is a fair chunk of cash
Is there any othe rpayment that could be arranged as well as the money:eyebrows:, but does sound a bit dodgy
There are people I would lend £1K to without a second's thought. There are even ex's I'd lend £1K to confident I'd get it back.
But there is no way I'd lend it to somebody I dated for 1 month!
no way, one min its 900 tonight 450 next week. If she cant pay back her parents she wont pay you back.
You went out for a month....not even a proper ex!! Im currently fighting for £450 off my ex....trust me dont do it and I lent it to her when we were going out
true i doubt id probably get it back as shes always in debt
Just tell her you can't afford it. Plain and simple - NO! You've got your own stuff to sort out. If she's already struggling to pay for stuff, when is she going to be able to pay you back. If she never speaks to you again 'cos of this, you're not really losing anything except a psychic vampire leeching off you and trying to guilt you into giving her what she wants. It's not your problem. End of.
A tenner is a favour... £900 is a serious loan IMO....
And having an emotional connection with the person means that they can fob you off...
I speak from experience with a family member who owed me £3500, and I'm currently getting it back at £50/month after much shouting and arguing...
SupraStar 3000
30-07-07, 19:02
Think of the pay-back Jazz.
Thats some mighty fine action owing to you my friend.
;)
Seriously though.
Tell her no.
i think i was thinking too soft thanks guys im going to tell her no can do:),
i think i was thinking too soft thanks guys im going to tell her no can do:),
i wouldent even bother answering her back, cheeky mare
Good man - definitely don't lend it to her. There's not many people I'd loan a grand to, but if I had that much spare cash, I'd be the first to borrow it from me :d
another text i got
"im sori 2 hav 2 ask u, but ive never been in this before, i didnt remember its my final payment 4 ma car, i got a cal, if dnt pay they will take my car tmrw, im 900 short, i used every penny, and explained that i didnt get a letter, which they sent 2 previous address, said pay 450 trw, 450 nxt week"
what also boils my blood is how she lied to me when ii met her and found out she had a boyfriend and also lied about her age
another text i got
"im sori 2 hav 2 ask u, but ive never been in this before, i didnt remember its my final payment 4 ma car, i got a cal, if dnt pay they will take my car tmrw, im 900 short, i used every penny, and explained that i didnt get a letter, which they sent 2 previous address, said pay 450 trw, 450 nxt week"
what also boils my blood is how she lied to me when ii met her and found out she had a boyfriend and also lied about her age
Sounds a bit fishy.... You don't just forget you have got a payment, they usually hound people for weeks before sending someone round to pick up the car.
Good man - definitely don't lend it to her. There's not many people I'd loan a grand to, but if I had that much spare cash, I'd be the first to borrow it from me :d
yea true, i put my supe before any girls and i think u should do this again :)
Good God no mate. If she couldnt be trusted in a relationship she cant with £900. Sorry matey.
that should awnser ur question then,
do her text messages come with a translator :D
that should awnser ur question then,
do her text messages come with a translator :D
lol
txt back saying this is someone else and you have sold your phone so stop txting;)
txt back saying this is someone else and you have sold your phone so stop txting;)
lol i doubt that would work as i spoke to her the other day for 2 hours
If she cant work out her car repayments how is she going to work out your repayments??
another text i got
"im sori 2 hav 2 ask u, but ive never been in this before, i didnt remember its my final payment 4 ma car, i got a cal, if dnt pay they will take my car tmrw, im 900 short, i used every penny, and explained that i didnt get a letter, which they sent 2 previous address, said pay 450 trw, 450 nxt week"
what also boils my blood is how she lied to me when ii met her and found out she had a boyfriend and also lied about her age
If she's deceitful and a liar, that just reinforces the notion of not lending it to her. As others have said, you don't just "forget" about an outstanding payment of £900 to the point where they are sending a meathead round to remove the car!
thanks guys im going to tell her that i already spent this months wages on my Beautiful supra:)
Tell her the truth mate, she's a scrounging bitch who can't afford her car so let them have it back and take the sodding bus :d
Tell her the truth mate, she's a scrounging bitch who can't afford her car so let them have it back and take the sodding bus :d
they dont just come round to reposes, she must have had a number of letters warning her, the whole thing is off the bulls+it detector scale
Dude, tell her to Get to F*k!
Geo.
thanks guys im going to tell her that i already spent this months wages on my Beautiful supra:)
best way fella;)
:) thanks guys for the advice as i was unsure now im 100% sure what to say
flukey-lukey
30-07-07, 19:52
I'd bet you £900 that she wants the money to go on holiday with her friends (its that time of the year :) ) and nothing to do with her car at all.
You can pay me £450 this week and £450 next week when we find out I was correct :D ;)
just sent me another text saying she needs it please, she stated she would ask another guy but he wants more?, im not going to bother replying till friday :)
no no no no no no no no no no no no no no and for the last time
no.:no::no::no::no::think::no:
dont reply
just sent me another text saying she needs it please, she stated she would ask another guy but he wants more?, im not going to bother replying till friday :)
What does he want more of?
Even if I had the nerve to ask an ex for £900, I wouldn't do it by text!
if you do lend it to her, I need 500 next month if thats ok :D
In plain simple english, that is a lot of money to get f%$ed, I'm sure you can get it cheaper elsewhere and actual get some *grin*
i make a habit of never lending anyone more than about 100 quid.
i can "afford" to loose 100 quid. id be pissed off but i can afford it... i doubt you can afford to loose 900 if she dissapeared. And besides. u only knew her for a month.
One of my friends i have known for about 6 months asked for a couple of hundred a while ago. she didnt get it. she got a loan instead.
p.s Can i borrow 500 quid? ill give it u back. i promise.
i make a habit of never lending anyone more than about 100 quid.
i can "afford" to loose 100 quid. id be pissed off but i can afford it... i doubt you can afford to loose 900 if she dissapeared. And besides. u only knew her for a month.
One of my friends i have known for about 6 months asked for a couple of hundred a while ago. she didnt get it. she got a loan instead.
p.s Can i borrow 500 quid? ill give it u back. i promise.
lol:p
mikeyb10supra
30-07-07, 20:05
nope sorry mate, I would say no.....you need to ask why she is in debt....let her learn from her mistakes, if its genuine reasons then im sure her parents will help out and she wont be affraid to tell them
just texted her saying i owe my mum and dad 1100
definately NO,.
1.you were only seeing her for 1 month.
2. she is a liar (seeing someone else)
3.if she cant pay her parents she cant pay you
4.sounds like BS about being the final payment(her story has changed)
5.If she cant be bothered to comeand speak to you face to face or ring you about that amount of money there would be no way!
tell her to take a hike!
TyranoSupraRex
30-07-07, 20:14
ok so my ex is textin me asking me this, problem is i never stayed in contact with her until she contacted me a while back and then disapears, we have still been friends but i hardly see her and never went out with her for more than a month(as shes the kind to cheat), if i lend her this that would mean my supe will be delayed more another month and i always put my supra before any chick? i also owe my mum 500 and dad 300 this month to clear of the money i borrowed for my supe last month:rolleyes:
quote what she texted me:-
"i know its rude, but cud i borrow 900.00 by 2nite, or they wil take my car. i will pay you bk, im in debt my parents dnt know or i wud ask"
"or 450 2nite and 450 next week, will pay you bak wont run away"
what would you guys do?
I'd rent her out to my mates for 900... easy ;)
i cannot believe you guys can be so harsh:rolleyes: that poor girl is probably scared, worried and skint :(i think you should lend her it mate, so what if you don,t get it back:search: and as for mentioning sexual favours in return:( shame on you lot
TyranoSupraRex
30-07-07, 20:26
i cannot believe you guys can be so harsh:rolleyes: that poor girl is probably scared, worried and skint :(i think you should lend her it mate, so what if you don,t get it back:search: and as for mentioning sexual favours in return:( shame on you lot
b*ll*x to that :p I think she's trying to pull a fast one on you and you'll be lucky to see one payment back. As for scared and worried, she'd have asked you face to face if it was that important.
i still think a big f off is in order, cheeky b+s+a+d! i cant belive you even considered it! i know i dont know you but i know the sort of girl she is
i cannot believe you guys can be so harsh:rolleyes: that poor girl is probably scared, worried and skint :(i think you should lend her it mate, so what if you don,t get it back:search: and as for mentioning sexual favours in return:( shame on you lot
maybe hes right? :no:
TyranoSupraRex
30-07-07, 20:30
maybe hes right? :no:
You're right...and maybe my mothers sewing machine has more horsepower than my supra :D
Anyway mate, you make up your own mind, but £900 is a lot to spank on some bird you don't even date anymore...
You're right...and maybe my mothers sewing machine has more horsepower than my supra :D
my mums has, but i have an N/A. i just cant belive he is tossing and turning if he should lend it to her or not.
jazz you know whats right the supra is just a piece of metal, and that poor girl is really emotional right now:( do the right thing jazz
jazz you know whats right the supra is just a piece of metal, and that poor girl is really emotional right now:( do the right thing jazz
you are taking the p1$$ arnt you
No way! Tell her to get herself to college to learn how to talk properly, then she might be able to hold down a job and pay her own debts. Jeeez.
now shes come down to just 450, its either pay my parents back what i owe them and that would clear my debt with them thanks to my supra or pay her and wait another month and that would also delay my project
now shes come down to just 450, its either pay my parents back what i owe them and that would clear my debt with them thanks to my supra or pay her and wait another month and that would also delay my project
Did she give good head?
tell her to sod off, if she was that emotional she would have had the decency to ask u in person, NOT over a chavvy text
u were with her for a month right? im guessing half of that she lied to u, so why should u do anything for her
and i doubt very much its to save her car
Did she give good head?
no i didnt even get that far and the funny thing was she was also seeing somone at the time and i dont agree with cheating
tell her to sod off, if she was that emotional she would have had the decency to ask u in person, NOT over a chavvy text
u were with her for a month right? im guessing half of that she lied to u, so why should u do anything for her
and i doubt very much its to save her car
yep she did lie
you are taking the p1$$ arnt you
:innocent::D
now shes come down to just 450, its either pay my parents back what i owe them and that would clear my debt with them thanks to my supra or pay her and wait another month and that would also delay my project
so she will borrow the other 450 off some other mug and wont be able to pay you/them back else she will have to fork out £900, family first, money grabbing bi+ches second
:innocent::D
your a naughty boy!
so she will borrow the other 450 off some other mug and wont be able to pay you/them back else she will have to fork out £900, family first, money grabbing bi+ches second
yea agree the whole reason why i dont have a girlfriend is i know they are hard to maintain, supras are less headache
TyranoSupraRex
30-07-07, 20:51
yea agree the whole reason why i dont have a girlfriend is i know they are hard to maintain, supras are less headache
How long have you had yours for??? I'm not sure who wins on headaches sometimes, but I know what gives me more heartache :)
I wouldn't lend someone £50 if i'd only known them a month... on second thoughts...any pics of her?
yea agree the whole reason why i dont have a girlfriend is i know they are hard to maintain, supras are less headache
is that the only reason mate:p
How long have you had yours for??? I'm not sure who wins on headaches sometimes, but I know what gives me more heartache :)
I wouldn't lend someone £50 if i'd only known them a month... on second thoughts...any pics of her?
just the one left as i deleted the rest
I wouldn't lend someone £50 if i'd only known them a month... on second thoughts...any pics of her?
i wouldent ether, especalliy if there were a lying cheating nob end :angry:
Is it really a good idea posting of her?
Is it really a good idea posting of her?
removed:)
i cannot believe you guys can be so harsh:rolleyes: that poor girl is probably scared, worried and skint :(i think you should lend her it mate, so what if you don,t get it back:search: and as for mentioning sexual favours in return:( shame on you lot
Gaz, Gaz!!! I need 1,000 quid to pay for [-]a single turbo conversion[/-] my hamsters vets bill or they'll put it down! no, honestly!! or they'll reposes his cage as well :innocent::D
She obviously cant manage her finances and is a spendaholic. Its probably for minimum repayments on her 12 storecards and 5 credit cards (and a bit for a holiday ;) ) She has to learn the hard way but I smell bullsh@t tbh. That 3 hour phone call was probably to soften you up before the emotional balckmail for your hard earned dosh :blink: Giving her the money would have the same effect as just flushing it down the bog - it would be the last you'd see of it :search:
DONT DO IT!!! :eek::scare:
LX
ok so my ex is textin me asking me this, problem is i never stayed in contact with her until she contacted me a while back and then disapears, we have still been friends but i hardly see her and never went out with her for more than a month(as shes the kind to cheat), if i lend her this that would mean my supe will be delayed more another month and i always put my supra before any chick? i also owe my mum 500 and dad 300 this month to clear of the money i borrowed for my supe last month:rolleyes:
quote what she texted me:-
"i know its rude, but cud i borrow 900.00 by 2nite, or they wil take my car. i will pay you bk, im in debt my parents dnt know or i wud ask"
"or 450 2nite and 450 next week, will pay you bak wont run away"
what would you guys do?
Pay your parents back, and tell the bint to bugger off.
Time for a new mobile phone.
Gaz, Gaz!!! I need 1,000 quid to pay for [-]a single turbo conversion[/-] my hamsters vets bill or they'll put it down! no, honestly!! or they'll reposes his cage as well :innocent::D
She obviously cant manage her finances and is a spendaholic. Its probably for minimum repayments on her 12 storecards and 5 credit cards (and a bit for a holiday ;) ) She has to learn the hard way but I smell bullsh@t tbh. That 3 hour phone call was probably to soften you up before the emotional balckmail for your hard earned dosh :blink: Giving her the money would have the same effect as just flushing it down the bog - it would be the last you'd see of it :search:
DONT DO IT!!! :eek::scare:
LX
mmmm any pics of this hamster:D:tongue:
Stevie Boy
30-07-07, 21:41
Did you say the money's for final car payments? What cars it for surely after they've repo'd it she'd get some money back?
Add what ever she get's back from that to the £900 she was gonna pay you back and you can tell her you'll be happy to help her find a little Ford KA to potter around in.
:)
funny thing i just had a text i didnt even agree to anything and she has already given me all her bank details asking me to transfer funds, but that got me thinking as she needs it by 4pm tommorow and bank transfer takes 4 working days.:rolleyes:
in the words of a very wise man:
Fuck that!!!! Don't give her a penny mate, it will all end in tears.
holiday time :D
lol just been to tenerife
in the words of a very wise man:
Fuck that!!!! Don't give her a penny mate, it will all end in tears.
think your right, i have not agreed to anything and already she has texted me her bank details
i didnt mean u going on holiday ;)
i didnt mean u going on holiday ;)
lol oh :)
TyranoSupraRex
30-07-07, 23:15
you could always sell her bank details to some dodgy bloke on the internet for £900... :)
Sorry to be blunt fella but tell her to fuck off.
If you really are worried about the sexual side of things pay your parents £700 and keep £200 back - you could probably pay to get 2 'girlfriends' for a night :D
Sorry to be blunt fella but tell her to fuck off.
If you really are worried about the sexual side of things pay your parents £700 and keep £200 back - you could probably pay to get 2 'girlfriends' for a night :D
lol i aint worried about sexual stuff as i never had anything from this chick apart from a kiss iv decided to pay my parents back tommorow and clear my own debts
Absolutely NO WAY Jose!!!
You're daft in the head for even considering it. :(
Absolutely NO WAY Jose!!!
You're daft in the head for even considering it. :(
But fair play for asking. Most blokes who would consider it wouldn't have considered it for more than a few seconds before accepting the offer.
cheers for the advice guys put me on track to say no:)
thats what im thinking, but how would you guys go on about texting her?
FUK DAT,DO U TAKE ME 4 A PRIK?! IM NOT LENDING U ANY MUNEE AT ALL
Jazz, just read this mate :)
i do hope you've done the right thing, as from an outsiders point of view, she is a cheeky cow mate, stay well clear, or your hard earned £900 wont be coming back to you...
How come she can ask you, but can't ask her own parents??? :blink:
good that u didnt do that!!
so 900 by tonite or they take her car? but 450 tonite is ok and 450 next week is fine?? shes taking the p*ss mate lol
Thinking about it, if you were genuinely keen to help her out, but need some sort of security you could turn this around: you could lend her the money with some sort of collateral. What about offering her the money in exchange for transferring the V5 and therefore ownership of the car? Would that work?
If she won't trust you with that, why should you trust her with your money?
just dont trust her at all! lol
RobSheffield
31-07-07, 11:05
In case you hadnt realised
NO
Oh, anyone save the pic to PM me? :p
tell her for F**K OFF - in the nicest way possible.
I think you should lend her it, she sounds like a nice girl and it did last a whole month... surely there is some emotional connection?
Why wouldn't you trust her? she sounds like an incredibly well balanced and grounded person, her grammatical style is impeccable too. :)
:)thanks to this thread i decided to repay my parents what i owe them and clear my own debts this month i have left
I can't believe you didn't lend her the money mate!!:rolleyes: With friends like you, who needs enemies!!
Personally I would have told her to fook off but seeing that it's your money and not mine then I would have given it to her....:D
Common sense prevails!!
H.
I think you should lend her it, she sounds like a nice girl and it did last a whole month... surely there is some emotional connection?
Why wouldn't you trust her? she sounds like an incredibly well balanced and grounded person, her grammatical style is impeccable too. :)
is this charlotte? :D (or have you been spending too much time together? :p )
is this charlotte? :D (or have you been spending too much time together? :p )
No, he wasn't sarcastic enough to be me. :)
Absolutely no sodding way!!!! Tell her to get a loan, get a credit card, sell her body, ask her parents, use the bus, hock a kidney, get a job, kiss your ass - whatever, just don't give her money. You will not see a penny of it - EVER!!! Don't let the fact that you boinked her get in the way of common sense - think with your head not your cock!!!:d
think with your head not your cock!!!:d
:D Classic!!
just sing to her....if you aint got no money take ya broke ass home!!:D
just sing to her....if you aint got no money take ya broke ass home!!:D
Hahah...harsh...but so true:)
lol i aint worried about sexual stuff as i never had anything from this chick apart from a kiss
so she never even put out!!! also, another point, what are you doing with a girl you have spent a month with and havent had relations with??? :rolleyes:
Stevie Boy
31-07-07, 17:18
Invite her round and tell her you've given the whole scinario great thought.......
:secret:
...........and what you decided was to eat the £900..........
.....and the only way she can get her hands on it...
............is if she sucks for long and hard enough on this it may just come out your j-spec eye! (ouch!):p
..........Although she might just offer you some laxatives.:slap:
Invite her round and tell her you've given the whole scinario great thought.......
:secret:
...........and what you decided was to eat the £900..........
.....and the only way she can get her hands on it...
............is if she sucks for long and hard enough on this it may just come out! :p
..........Although she might just offer you some laxatives.:slap:
ace idea!! id do that!
well she kept texting me today asking if i put the money in the account and i told her straght that it takes 5 days. She then texts back saying thats cool, so i replied saying i need the money for my supra:)
That woman has more edge than a broken piss pot:sly:
funny thing is she gave me her new address on the text and stated shes only there for one month more
toyotasuprauk
31-07-07, 20:40
Don’t piss about, just text, no way am I lending you that money sorry you’re in enough debt as it is.
Next time just tell her to piss off, she's not getting any money out of you. She's just trying to guilt you into giving her the money.
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